
Anyway, being naturally curious, I have started to read a lot of books like these. Life affirming stories about the second half (hopefully!) of my life and what I have to look forward to. I have a few relatives who, already at the age of 50, have clearly given up on life. All they have is their family. They don't socialize, they don't exercise (their brains or their bodies), they don't travel - they seemed to have just stopped growing. Up or out. And that's just not me. Nor will it be.
Some of these stories were sad but most were about starting over (a new marriage, a new habitat, a new job) and I'm no stranger to that. I think 'do-overs' are some of life's best surprise treasures. I think I've lost count on how many times I've gotten a do-over. I actually am in the middle of one now. It's a challenge. It's an adventure.
Don't let anyone tell you life stops at 50. If anything, it starts again.